Understanding domestic violence and abuse

Do you feel unsafe or afraid of a partner, ex, or family member? 

Learn the signs and types of abusive relationships, and find out how Saoirse can help you.
  • Domestic violence and abuse is the abusive control of one person over another.

  • It occurs across all cultures, backgrounds, ages and genders.

  • Everyone’s experience is different, including the type and length of abuse. But one thing is always true: it is never your fault.
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12 warning signs your partner is abusive

Are you in an abusive relationship? Learn the red flags that indicate your partner may be abusing you.

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5 types of domestic violence & abuse

Understand what different types of abuse look like — physical, emotional, financial, sexual, coercive control.
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8 power & control tactics used by abusers

Understand how abusers gain control over their victims. We explain 8 tactics connected to physical and sexual violence.

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What is the 'cycle of violence'?

Domestic violence follows a pattern of repeated, escalating, abusive and controlling behaviours. The repeating phases are called the 'cycle of violence.'

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Get help from Saoirse

Abuse takes many forms. So does our support. Find out more about our domestic violence helpline, refuges, and other services.

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I'm concerned about someone else

Find out how you can help a friend or family member who might be being abused.

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