Learn the signs and types of abusive relationships, and find out how Saoirse can help you.
- Domestic violence and abuse is the abusive control of one person over another.
- It occurs across all cultures, backgrounds, ages and genders.
- Everyone’s experience is different, including the type and length of abuse. But one thing is always true: it is never your fault.
12 warning signs your partner is abusive
Are you in an abusive relationship? Learn the red flags that indicate your partner may be abusing you.
Types of domestic violence & abuse
What is coercive control?
Coercive control is a pattern of controlling, threatening or abusive behaviour by a partner or ex-partner. Coercive control is a criminal offence in Ireland.
What is technology-facilitated abuse?
Is someone using technology to keep tabs on you, contact you when you don't want them to, or threaten you?
What is gaslighting?
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse where someone repeatedly makes you doubt your own memory, judgement, or sense of reality.
What is post-separation abuse?
Some abusive ex-partners try to hold onto control through shared children, family court, finances or mutual contacts.
Power & control tactics used by abusers
Understand how abusers gain control over their victims. We explain the tactics connected to physical and sexual violence.
What is the 'cycle of violence'?
Domestic violence follows a pattern of repeated, escalating behaviours called the 'cycle of violence.'
What does a healthy relationship look like?
Discover the everyday signs of a healthy relationship and what it can look like when they're missing.
Get support from Saoirse
Abuse takes many forms. So does our support. We provide free, confidential support for anyone impacted by domestic violence or abuse.
I'm concerned about someone else
Find out how you can help a friend or family member who might be being abused.
No judgement. No pressure. Just support.
Call us for free any time on 1800 911 221
